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Moving can be a life-altering experience for a child. If you are moving out of the area and your
children will be attending a new school, the difficulties for children may only be magnified.
However, there are plenty of things you can do for your children during the moving process that
can turn a stressful event into a time of excitement. Here are some suggestions.
1. Share the news early
Once you have made the decision to move, let your children know and listen to their opinions.
While some kids may be disappointed – especially if you are moving out of the area – they may
find some solace in providing input. Furthermore, the more time your children have to prepare
themselves for the move, the better.
2. Show some excitement
Rather than expressing regret about
the decision to move, let your kids
know that a new home will be an ex-
citing opportunity for everyone. Talk
about the activities your family can
do after moving and the benefits of
their new school. As moving day app-
roaches, you may find that your
children are looking forward to every-
thing from decorating bedrooms to
making new friends.
Tips for Moving with Kids
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3. Get the kids involved
As you make the preparations to move, try to get your kids involved in the process. Let them help make decisions and
give them jobs to keep them feeling excited. The more involved they are, the better the transition can be.
4. Give the kids jobs
When packing, it can also be helpful to let children box up and label their own rooms. To help your kids take their minds
off the stresses of moving, encourage them to be creative. Younger children might enjoy painting pictures of your old
house to display after you’ve moved. Older children can keep a journal or scrapbook during moving and have a story to
share later. During the moving process, you could also give your kids jobs – complete with badges and uniforms – to help
them stay involved.
5. Have a party
Prior to leaving your home, throw a party for yourself and your kids. Invite the friends of everyone in the family and plan
some fun, all-ages activities. Afterwards, make sure your kids receive contact information for everyone they want to stay
in contact with.
6. Get acquainted with your new surroundings
Once you have unloaded the truck, try to make the first night in your new home as exciting as possible. Have fun playing
hide-and-seek or a board game before worrying about unpacking and organizing. After you have settled in, start taking
walks or bike rides around the neighborhood. You can introduce yourselves to the neighbors and the kids might find
some new friends.
7. Get back to normal
For the sake of the entire family’s happiness, try not to take too long to resume doing what your family enjoys. If your
family had a custom of bowling every Friday, try to find a bowling alley near your new home. You may also want to drive
through the area and acquaint yourself with the locations of businesses like grocery stores and restaurants. When
Saturday rolls around, try out the pizza parlor you found.
Though moving can be difficult on children of all ages, it can also provide something to look forward to. By keeping your
kids involved during every step of the moving process, you will help them feel in control of the situation. After moving into
your new home, help them understand that life will be as fun as it always was; it will just take place in a different location.
Most importantly, do your best as a family to stay together and have fun along the way.
The staff at Coldwell Banker Real Estate LLC writes select articles about important topics related to real estate. For more information about buying a home or selling your current property, visit ColdwellBanker.com today.



